HEALING ANDCARINGTOGETHER

Safe
Space
Caring
Community

A respectful space exclusively for widows and widowers to connect with others who understand. Meet people who share your life experience.

A caring community for healing hearts

You're not alone in your journey

Join a community that understands and supports you through life's changes. Find comfort in shared experiences and build meaningful connections.

Join Our Community
Welcome to your safe space
Find comfort and connection

Today's Support Circle

Share your story in a safe, understanding space

Support Groups
Community
Messages

Upcoming Gatherings

Healing Together

Share stories and find strength

New Beginnings

Moving forward together

What we offer

Dating

Find meaningful romantic connections with others who understand your journey.

Matches

Meet compatible partners who share your experiences and values.

Safe Space

A private place where your story is protected and respected.

Connect. Heal. Thrive.

ferntie is a dedicated platform for widows and widowers to find meaningful connections, share their journey, and build a supportive community with others who truly understand.

Our Vision

A Safe Space
Where understanding meets
Compassion

Our Community

A community built on understanding and shared experiences

Safe spaces for healing and meaningful connections

Support that grows with you on your journey

Find comfort and strength
in shared experiences

Simple Pricing, Real Connections 💚

One plan. No tricks. Just real people meeting real people.

Monthly Membership
$15/month
  • Real ID verification - everyone is verified
  • See everyone nearby - no swipes, no games
  • Unlimited messages and photos
  • No fake profiles - AI protection 24/7
  • Local matches only - no long distance
  • No ads, ever
  • Instant refund if no matches in your area
  • Your data deleted when you leave
Start Finding Love

Built by ONE person who hates fake dating sites.Read why ferntie exists

Cancel anytime. No hidden fees. No yearly plans - find love and leave.

Common Questions

Important Note: ferntie is a supportive community created for widows and widowers. We understand that everyone's journey through loss and healing is unique. While we provide a space for connection and support, we are not a replacement for professional counseling or therapy.

Our community is built on trust, respect, and understanding. We ask all members to be kind and considerate of others' feelings and experiences. Please remember that everyone here is going through their own journey of healing.

While we do our best to create a safe and supportive environment, we cannot guarantee the outcome of any connections made through our platform. We encourage you to take your time getting to know others and to trust your instincts when interacting with new people.

If you're experiencing severe grief or emotional distress, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a qualified mental health professional. Your well-being is important to us, and we want you to get the support you need.